T is for Topping from the bottom

T is for topping from the bottom

A top is a dominant and a bottom is the submissive who is controlled by the dominant. So topping from the bottom is the activity where the slave tries to control what the Mistress does. It is an inferior trying to manipulate their superior and it is wrong.

A slave may have ideas of what might be a good idea to use for the next time he is able to be with his Mistress. he might beg for a good flogging or to be put into a particular type of bondage. Mistress and slave might relax talking about options for future sessions or about what went particular well in a previous session and was enjoyed by both.

There is nothing wrong with this and a Mistress will want to know how Her slave felt when specific things were being done to him. She will need to know if there were any problems or ones that might arise. If he might be exposed if he went home after a session bruised ad marked or with painted toe nails She needs to know.
Communication between slave and Mistress is essential to the development of their association and his development as a slave.

But when he is trying to manipulate her to get out of things he finds hard but She wants to do or to do things She does not want to do then it all changes. he is the slave and She should be the one making the decisions. She must be totally free to decide and not be under pressure from her slave. he is abusing Her and this should not be allowed.

A slave who persistently tops from the bottom is not an asset to a Mistress but a nuisance and in some cases this can lead to him being dismissed. In other situations he will need to be reminded if he steps across the line to push his own agenda. If he does it again he will be punished severely.

T is for Topping from the bottom

T is for topping from the bottom

A top is a dominant and a bottom is the submissive who is controlled by the dominant. So topping from the bottom is the activity where the slave tries to control what the Mistress does. It is an inferior trying to manipulate their superior and it is wrong.

A slave may have ideas of what might be a good idea to use for the next time he is able to be with his Mistress. he might beg for a good flogging or to be put into a particular type of bondage. Mistress and slave might relax talking about options for future sessions or about what went particular well in a previous session and was enjoyed by both.

There is nothing wrong with this and a Mistress will want to know how Her slave felt when specific things were being done to him. She will need to know if there were any problems or ones that might arise. If he might be exposed if he went home after a session bruised ad marked or with painted toe nails She needs to know.
Communication between slave and Mistress is essential to the development of their association and his development as a slave.

But when he is trying to manipulate her to get out of things he finds hard but She wants to do or to do things She does not want to do then it all changes. he is the slave and She should be the one making the decisions. She must be totally free to decide and not be under pressure from her slave. he is abusing Her and this should not be allowed.

A slave who persistently tops from the bottom is not an asset to a Mistress but a nuisance and in some cases this can lead to him being dismissed. In other situations he will need to be reminded if he steps across the line to push his own agenda. If he does it again he will be punished severely.

T is for Topping from the bottom

T is for topping from the bottom

A top is a dominant and a bottom is the submissive who is controlled by the dominant. So topping from the bottom is the activity where the slave tries to control what the Mistress does. It is an inferior trying to manipulate their superior and it is wrong.

A slave may have ideas of what might be a good idea to use for the next time he is able to be with his Mistress. he might beg for a good flogging or to be put into a particular type of bondage. Mistress and slave might relax talking about options for future sessions or about what went particular well in a previous session and was enjoyed by both.

There is nothing wrong with this and a Mistress will want to know how Her slave felt when specific things were being done to him. She will need to know if there were any problems or ones that might arise. If he might be exposed if he went home after a session bruised ad marked or with painted toe nails She needs to know.
Communication between slave and Mistress is essential to the development of their association and his development as a slave.

But when he is trying to manipulate her to get out of things he finds hard but She wants to do or to do things She does not want to do then it all changes. he is the slave and She should be the one making the decisions. She must be totally free to decide and not be under pressure from her slave. he is abusing Her and this should not be allowed.

A slave who persistently tops from the bottom is not an asset to a Mistress but a nuisance and in some cases this can lead to him being dismissed. In other situations he will need to be reminded if he steps across the line to push his own agenda. If he does it again he will be punished severely.